Mature guys who have ever had friend with benefits...?

He's been my best guy friend for about 2 years and we really care a lot about each other. We first hooked up in September and have continued to hook up occasionally (about 3-4 times/month on average) since then. We didn't have sex until end of December and that was his choice, his reasoning when i finally brought it up was that he thinks sex is kind of a big deal, especially between such good friends, and that he really cares about me but just doesn't want to be in a serious relationship. He knows I've started to like him enough to want to be his girlfriend but that, at least for now, i'm cool with the status quo if he doesnt want that. So on Valentines day he gave me 3 roses he had picked himself at the flower shop. 2 red roses and 1 white rose. Being a female, I know that different colors of roses have different meanings. Do you think he knew what a red and white rose signify? If so, what do you think he meant to say with this gift? We're both in our mid-20s by the way

Mature guys who have ever had friend with benefits...?
He probably doesn't know what they mean and just picked them cause they look pretty or where "valentines colors".


I wouldnt read to far into it.
Reply:Some people can pull it off, but eventually one of the people will develop feelings that are very serious.





I gave three roses to a girl once, I told her that there was one for me, one for her, and then one for us.





I don't know what the white signifies - it could mean he is only part way serious about the relationship. Eventually you're going to want a serious man... let him know that.
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Reply:they're just flowers don't think too much into it
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Reply:awww you guys are cute. try and put some boundaries up so you don't get hurt. He is being sweet to you cos he cares. On the other hand he has told you straight up he doesn't want a serious relationship. So you need to remember that and protect yourself.
Reply:2 red roses show that he really cares for you, but the red rose shows that he is unsure of where to go from here.